The Struggle of Seeking Understanding

Arguments can be painful, especially when we desperately want the other person to see our side. It can feel like there is more harm than harmony in our relationships, both within our churches and our nation. But what if we shift our perspective and approach conflict resolution in a different way?

In a world where it seems impossible to find common ground, finding peace may seem like an unattainable goal. However, what if peace is not about coming into agreement with others, but about coming into alignment with the Lord?

Shifting Our Focus

When we shift our focus from trying to convince others to see things our way to seeking alignment with the Lord, we open ourselves up to a new way of resolving conflicts. Instead of clinging to our own ideas and opinions, we can surrender them to God and seek His wisdom and guidance in the situation.

Aligning with the Lord in conflict resolution means putting aside our own ego and pride, and humbling ourselves before Him. It means seeking His will and His ways, rather than trying to force our own agenda. When we align ourselves with the Lord, we can trust that He will work things out for the greater good, even if it means letting go of our own desires.

Finding Peace in Alignment

When we align ourselves with the Lord in conflict resolution, we may not always find agreement with the other person involved. However, we can find peace within ourselves, knowing that we have done our part to seek God’s will and follow His guidance.

Alignment with the Lord brings a sense of inner calm and confidence. It allows us to let go of the need for validation from others and instead find validation in our relationship with God. In this alignment, we can approach conflicts with love, grace, and understanding, even if the other person does not.

Ultimately, finding peace in alignment with the Lord is about letting go of our own agendas and trusting that God’s plan is greater than our own. It is about acknowledging that we may not always see eye-to-eye with others, but we can still approach conflicts with a heart filled with love and a desire for reconciliation.

Conclusion

Conflict resolution is not an easy task, but when we shift our focus from seeking validation from others to seeking alignment with the Lord, we open ourselves up to a new way of approaching conflicts. In this aligned state, we can find peace within ourselves, even if the other person does not see our side. Let us strive for alignment with the Lord in all aspects of our lives, knowing that true peace comes from surrendering to His will and trusting in His plan.